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they would call me sarah, but it seems that people are afraid to address me by my name. i am a senior. i dislike a lot of things. i enjoy a nice hot medium mocha latte and smoke too many cigarettes for my own good. i have been in love. i love lights and colors. i am above the influence.


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I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that.

Hmmm...The next time she says it ask her why she puts herself down all the time? Tell Her that you like her just the way she is. Ask her if she really thinks she's fat does she want to go outside and go for a run or fo situps?

What I have observed over the past few years is that when someone says they're ugly or fat(even if they're not), they want other people to tell them that they're beautiful. Most of the time they are insecure about their appearance and need reassuring. STOP ressuring her and offer her alternatives

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