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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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ok, well i really have liked this guy for 2 years, i think i love him. he knew, he hated me for it. lots of horrible stuff happened. now i'm going to a different school next year & i'm almost over him, which is good. i met a guy at this school who i really like [through the drama camp], & i really want him to know how i feel about him & how i can't stop thinking about him, but i don't want to tell him i like him, because he barely knows me. i don't want any of my friends to do it for me because i don't want to cause any tention between us. all the guys i've ever had feelings for have hated me in return & i don't want this to happen again. someone please give me some advice. i'll rate you for it if you want.

I've been through a situation JUST LIKE that one. The reason the guy I liked hated me was because I seemed to like him too much, and we barely knew each other.

So, get to know him first. Try to become his friend. Strike up a conversation about something, like, "I like your band shirt... where'd you get it?" or something like that.
Also, if you get to know him and he's mean or something, you'll be glad you got to know him first!
And if you get to know him and you like him as a friend, you can still be his friend.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders

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(Rating: 5) wow thanks. that really helped =]
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