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16 F sophomore. guy 17 junior.

Me and this guy have been friends for about 2 almost 3 years i guess.. if i'm couting right. Anyway i suddenly liked him after a terrible break up.. and then I just gave up on it thinking i was still in love with my ex.. moving on... So this crush has kind of been hidden for a few months and i recently told him that i liked him way back then. and he was cool about it but here recently we've been joking about being benefit buds.. and i dont know if he's serious.. and even if he was and we really did like each other and wanted to date should I: b/c a) he's dated like 2 or 3 of my friends and B) this wouldn't destroy our friendship but maybe make it awkward. i dunno just some advice please?~ unsure. (link)
I think that if you really think that having benefits with him could turn into something like a relationship and you truly trust him you should consider it. But if you are starting to have a lot of doubts and second thoughts follow your instincts and dont do it. But make sure you ask him if he is serious before you consider this. Well i hope that everything turns out well for you. "kisses" PrettyLady16


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Thank you! that's what i needed. okay see we disscussed that if we trusted each other *theoreticlaly before we decided to be serious about it* And we said we did we decided to go to the movies. thank you!




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