about

My name is Misty. Im 23 years old. Im a part time bartendar a part time student and a full time mother of 3 kids. My oldest son is 6years old and my youngest son is 8weeks old and my daughter is 18 months.
Ive been through alot in my short life and feel I can anwser just about anything and I hope my advice helps you out.
I thought this would be a good idea because Im the one everyone calls when they have a problem so I figured I would spread the love.
Ive taken many courses in psychology during my college courses if that helps any.
Just to make it clear my advice is what I think is best but you have to judge for yourself on what you believe to be the best thing to do in your sitation.

advice

I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist?

I know what you mean exactly. In real life Im a very dominant person but I kept having fantasies about being dominated. I finially told my husband I wanted to give it a try but he insisted he didnt like the idea of it and was scared he would hurt me. Finially we gave it a try and I realized some things are just better left an fantasy because what seemed really hot in my head turned out to be kinda scary in real life.

[view]

(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker