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Q: Okay here is the scoop. I have a friend "Tory" who is pregnant. She didn't tell me her aunt did because her grandma kicked her out when she found out that "Tory" was pregnant. Her aunt wants me to talk to her but I can't bring it up until she tells me. But then again I don't think she wants to tell me because It is like a competition thing between us in her eyes, she always compares things. But I don't look at our friendship like that. But anyways when she tells me what can I say to make her feel like I will be there for her, which I will but I still don't know what to say Please HELP
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Tell her just what you told us. In a matter of speaking, tell her that it isn't a compitition to you, and you just want to be there for her. Try to bring it up without telling her that you know, so that you can get her to realize that earlyer. YOu can do that by like asking her when she thinks she will want children, or ask her how many kids she wants to have when she grows up. She shouldn't be able to stand not telling you because if it is a compotition, she will want to rub it in your face that she is more "mature" than you, or something like that. She can't talk herself into not telling you for much longer anyway. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have rate if you don't want to, but it would be nice if you did. Thanks!
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Thank you that is very good and it gets right to the poing
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Ok, so I haven't been on in a while and I'm just starting to get back to where I can give advice again. I had a rough spot there and I just couldn't give advice without seeming rude, so I decided to take a break. My real name is Shannon and I live in Utah. I am 15 and I love animals and friends. I love to act and know a bit about those kinds of things. I would love to help you out and hope that I can. But there is one thing, you have to ask a question for me to answer! Just kidding. Hope you have a great day!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Salt Lake City Utah Occupation: school (student) Age: 17 Member Since: July 3, 2005 Answers: 304 Last Update: August 22, 2010 Visitors: 26929
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