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Q: Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this???
I'd smack him! Seriously, it's so stupid how judgemental people are when it comes to girls. If you grabbed some guy's ass, they wouldn't call him a slut, they'd call you one. How is that fair?

So from now on, I'd just look at them and say, "My boyfriend got to grab my boobs, because he was hot and cool. You are not. So get off me, loser!" and leave it at that.

thanks because all of this is gettin out of hand

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