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oh yeah I know I just would really like it if people could experience it the way I did you know? I hope most teenagers wait until they think they love the person but on here it kinda feels opposite. thanks

You said a lot in your advice, and you really understood what I was trying to convey. I'm not very good at describing things, but THANK YOU, becuase you hit it right on exactly. <3

thanks!

thanks so much!

thanks but that link wont work, maybe you could edit your answer?

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lol the library. school one I can never find anything in there and the librarians are not helpful at all. The local library--too much info - ironic, i know. but thanks very much =]

thanks alot that really helped!

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Thanks =)

thanks; and yeah i'm definatly gonna discuss it with my doctor; and i've gotten a few friends opinions :]

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thanks!

Thanks! I saw her today and was really debating whether or not I should tell her this. I didn't tell her! Happy New Year!

Thanks!

Thanks for the advice! It's appreciated!

thank you

thanks!

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Thank you very much for taking the time to answer my question...that's great advice! :-)

oh my gosshh! wow THANK YOU SO MUCCCHHH! ♥♥ you are awesome. and you've been a great help!! THANK YOU =)

Thanks..and I was mad at the lady at the bank. She said I probably have an old version of IE..even though there is not a newer version for XP home.

Very very great advice... i told him i will be engaged... but marriage is going to be something down the road... b/c i need to see how mature he can really be, cuz i dont feel he understands how big of a deal marriage is

I actually read it on Advicenators! Some chick was pleading to another to not use the Pill because her friend did and her baby was born with no fingers or toes...it can happen to anyone though, right? Yeah, that makes sence what you said about it's been around for 30 years and if it was harmful we'd know about it. i didn't think of that! Thanks so much for this info, I really appreciate mature answers! Thanks again! ;) xox

You didnt read carefully enough. I have an active social life, but only because I chase it. Im trying to figure out why I dont have the social life chasing me a bit, why people dont call me to tell me whats going on, but instead I have to ask.

thank you

you make no sense what so ever. and technically he is related to me but thanks for nothing.

thanks, i think i'll try both pads and sponges. i'll tell you how the sponges work out... by the way i found out about advicenators through you! hehe. i found your website by clicking on someone's useless blob on their xanga. i like your website, it's funny and cool =)

Yea but when we are together we aren't all over each other and when in public we don't do PDA. It's more like we are best friends

I'm not really sure at all if I have it. I just experienced itchness before for a while. But it possibly could have been because I was sweating or allergic to the fabric I'm wearing... But I also just started shaving so that also may be making it worse.

Thanks

I didn't know that! :D Thanks so much, cause I was about to use my birth control pills in my hair...ha. I don't think my boyfriend qould have liked that! Well Thanks! :D

thanks!

Thanks for pointing that out to me!

i dont totally agree with what you said, but thanks for the advice

okay thanks!

Thank you so much!! it really helped and i think i am going to call the company to ask the questions! THanks so much again~

"The US air force and navy want the best pilots in the world, and that's what they get." If they would give me a chance, they would get the best.

yeah, it is a classic nylon, and thanks ill definetly check that out, i cant wait thanks

thanks,i'll try this at work

interesting but thankss

I have told my parents but they didn't seem to be angered by it at all. All my dad said was "Keep him away from you then." It has been too long from then to remember everything that was said on the bus. I have told the leaders but now it doesn't seem to worry them very much. It is like since we have returned from camp that they have completely forgotten what I told them.

Thank you so very very much. I just went to the site and it looks perfect. =)

Thanks for the advice! I think you're right that I'll regret it if I slack off now, because I used to slack when I was in year 8 and I really regret that now.

bearing in mind my son is only 9 and these boys are 17, kids are bound to be scared

Ok, I'll do that now

(Edited for insanity)You see, her music is not punk, its pop. Obviously she is NOT punk because thousands of 10 year old girls love her. She dresses the opposite of her sound, and it irritates people. Or so it would seem.

thanks because all of this is gettin out of hand

haha mean girls. i love that movie!

Thanks for the help. Keep rockin' on.

k thanks.

thanks, i appreciate it

ur exactly right!! thanx!

Hey, thanks for trying, anyways :)

thanks alot i'll keep that in mind!

It is a cycle....And thank you that was very inspirational...in an analytical, enigmatic intelligent kind of way, good for you!

Thanks, Spacefem- I was afraid of that. I'm not sure I want to be involved anyway, it seems best not to be.

Thanks so much for your time!

wow.. we think alike :) thanks

I didn't need to know about the home gas bill, our heating goes along in the rent. And I actually already knew that about the tires.

Lord of the Rings kicks butt

Okay that helps a lot! thanks

thank you

You have REALLY GOOD advice, and I really, REALLY agree with you!!:)

and the minute they try to fuck with you dumb 'em!

Thank so much! You're answer really helped! :)

I just want to say one thing, I am obsessed with labels because I have been severely damaged by them in the past. And you're absolutely right. I don't hate everything popular, I just want to be able to see beyond it, or maybe I am jealous of something in this particular case. Who knows. As far as I know I do have versatile tastes, popular or not, but hey, your advice is great, thanks.

thanks for the details

You dont need to be sucj an arrogant follish dickhead i mean the reason i asked him was to see where i stand in his life if he is dating me because he likes me or to get head thats why

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I've been in the advice column over five years now so I think I've pretty much heard it all... the love, the hate, the random insanity. I don't take it too seriously, so I'm not always giving the best advice, but my column is fun to read!

I am a 23 year old electrical engineer, a feminist, a Christian. I don't know everything but I can sure pretend to.

Disclaimer: Now that I'm on advicenators I'm getting even more questions every day. It's fast and easy for me to answer them, yes, so at least I'm answering something now, but if your question contains the words "there's this guy that I like..." chances are I won't get around to it. I'm only answering interesting questions that I haven't answered before. Register at the site and ask everyone for advice if you must have an answer, because if people read my column and boring love advice was all they found, they'd never come back.

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