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alright, im 13 and my mom put me on birth control pills...but im a vergin. she doesnt belive me so now im starting the pill on sunday. so i told my bf and he said that if his mom knew about it she would buy him condoms. so we both laughed....sigh...ok now my problem. does this mean that he wants to have sex? or wat? i mean i LOVE this kid...and i was thinking about having sex with him for awhile now. but im not sure if he wants to. i mean i know were like really young but i really do love him. so do you think i should have sex with him and do you think he wants to have it with me or is he just kidding around? and if we did have sex where would we have it? please help me im so freaking confused! I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!! sorry if this is too long. (link)
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ok first of all, you should tell your mother to cool down because you are telling the truth and she should trust you, and when you are telling this tell it calmly and adultly...(sorry not a real word but anyways )
such as like this
"mom, i know you are trying to protect me and help me but i would never do that when i know i can not take the responsibilty for it, and i have a good judgement so i know what i shouldnt do or do. so please mom trust me on this and i never will do anything stupid without consulting you first when its things that big."
and well you dont have to but i think taking pill when you are not preg is kinda bad for you. because taking any pill can be bad for you. even a tylenol for a simple headache.
anyways and i think he was probably joking but i dont think you should really lose your virginity when you are still young. but if you really really want to and if your heart say so, then i guess you must do what your heart says but to me you sound like you shouldnt. because if you are freaking out and dont know yet, it means your concious mind of heart is saying that you are not ready. and trust me you have plenty of time to do 'it' later =)
and hope i helped but most importantly, follow your heart. it may be wrong later, and you might regret it but you will never know if you never listen to it so trust your judgement.
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