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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.
i don't think you should be with either.. for now. think about how you really feel, and ask yourself things like: what makes you like both of them? who makes you feel the best? who makes you laugh and smile the most? who do you know will be there for you whenever you need them? who could you imagine being with 10 years from now? who knows you the most? who is sweet and treats you like a princess? who are you more comfortable around? who do you have more in common with? who would you always have a good time with? who can you talk to nonstop and never run out of things to say? who has those adorable things about them that you love? after all of those and more, hopefully you can figure out who's better for you. but if both of them are equally great, then just wait and see what happens; maybe zach will get over alli, maybe your feelings for elijah will grow, or maybe you'll get over one of them. just wait and figure your feelings out, and follow your heart. good luck!
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Thank you for your imput. That is one of the best answers I've gotten. I will follow your advice. Thank you ever so much.
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