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Hey Im Sam!!A couple of my friends say that im good for giving advice and sometimes am motherly :\(JOE) which could be good in certain situations cuz im very responsible and try to make people feel good about themselves.So i figured id give this advice thing a shot. So if it turns out good you guys can ask me anything you want i wont reject anyones question i promise. AsK AwAy!!
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I am in love with this guy. We'll call him Zach. And I like this guy. We'll call him Elijah. Zach's in love with this girl. We'll call her Alli. Alli's in love with this guy and is in a lasting relationship with this guy. We'll call him Joe. Okay, now the problem is Alli has no feelings for Zach and she's told him so. Zach is still hanging on because it is so hard for him to let go. But he knows he has to. And he's told me that when he isn't thinking of her he's thinking of me. I am that girl that he will fall back on and I'm okay with that. But while I'm waiting for him to get over her Elijah really likes me. He wants to be the guy to make me smile. And the more time he spends with girls the more he thinks of me. I like him, but I love Zach. Elijah told me that he will wait as long as he has to but he will not wait if it will jeopardize his well-being. I don't want to lose him, but I don't want to lose Zach more. Zach tells me but he would be okay if I went with Elijah. But the problem is that if I get too deep in with Elijah and Zach decides he wants to be with me it will only make it harder to turn Elijah away. What do I do? I will rate all answers.
Wow this is tough. I feel like a broken record saying this, but you need to pick one. I think you should hang out with both of them together and see whic person your more drawn too. If that doesnt work id go *elijah* because if *alli* and *joe* break up *zach* is gonna forget u and head straight up to *alli* you wouldnt want ur heart broken like that, and i bet things can go deeper with elijah. I hope i helped. Sammerz
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your imput. I forgot to mention that I've talked with Alli and she considers Zach as just a friend and will always think of him that way. But I will take your imput to heart. Thank you.