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Yeah, so my guy and I have been together for almost 20 months, and he proposed awhile back.
The thing is, about a month ago we had a big fight over something INCREDIBLY stupid and almost broke up before realizing that it was completely fixable, and that we'd both be miserable without each other. So really, we never broke up...but I want to know if we're still engaged. It's getting close to a year since he proposed. Should I just randomly do something like "You remember what you asked me a year ago today?"
I mean, he still talks about our relationship as if it'll never end, so I think he still feels the same way. I know he still loves me (if anything, he seems to love me more, and I love him)
So...how do I go about bringing this up?

this may sound korney, but its the best advice i can give-what i would do is take him to a very nice resturaunt on the day that he asked you out, and when you are eating dinner and he ever asks "so whats the special occasion" or anything asking why you are at such a nice place, just tell him "well, remember what you asked me a year ago today?" or if he doesnt ask you then tell him "((name)) do you remember what happened a year ago today?" < yeah i know its the exact same, but both ways will work (commin from a guy) then you can get on talking about it, tell him what you are/were affraid of and you wanted to know if he still wanted to get married to you. you can change some of the stuff around to your liking, but thats about what id do

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