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ok... so i know this is going to be one of the dumbest things you've ever heard... but... my best friend.. idk she doesnt make me feel very good.. she does things that cause me to cut myself.. and she steps all over me.. i bend over backwards to try and make sure she's happy and everything.... but she just doesnt seem to appreciate me.. i'm a really pure hearted girl.. and it's gotten to the point where she could slap me and say she hated me and i'd still love her.. kinda like when you hear about those guys that beat there wives and they stick arond and dont rat on there husbands.. i know its dumb.. but idk... im not happy in life... she's made me weak and insecure... she swore she hated this girl amanda....those two hated eachother for the longest time... and now its like nothing happened and they're best friends again.... i hate it.. and all of my friends say to just forget my bf because she isn't worth it.. but no one understands how hard that is for me..... i know i shouldnt stick around... but gosh.. its so dang confusing.. please help me anyone!
5's to anyone that helps...... :'( (link)
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ok i know you heard this so much...
but "you should go find new bf because she is not worth it!"
before you dump my thing ...hear me out...
i am not those people who forgives everybody, but i had a friend like that...she cursed at me, hit me and all that crap load... first i forgave her since she said she was sorry...but later she started hanging out with people and cursin at me behind my back and callin me and cursing too.
and i got pissed off at her so i ended friendship there! and i AM so glad i did BECAUSE...
it gave me a chance to make NEW best friend who doesnt treat me like piece of you know what!
and you deserve so much better than that
you are CUTTING because of that! and Self esteem if going down ! DONT DO THAT!!!!!
it just makes me so mad when people dont let go of things that isnt worth it... i am sorry if i made you feel bad and all that but i try so hard to help people around and if i couldnt help them i get mad at my self so bad! i curse at my own self for not being help ful enough...so please hear me out why you gotta let go of her...
1. FRiendship is NOT Cutting, Hurting!
its all about the caring, and loving in sisterly way.
you know what! in fact it is whole new SISTERHOOD!
2. if you care so much about her, but she dont care a single cent about you than what do you have to show for? NOTHING but CUTTING!
3. you HAVE other friends who's trying to help you forget about her! but What do you do instead?
think your so called "bf" is better than them and listen to her and not the people who's trying to help you.
and i know i am pushy and all that but i am really trying to help you. i've seen such a bad thing come out of all this i dont want that to happen to anybody else!
i HAD been through same thing! i know it hurts. but you gotta realize if you bend more she is stepping on you more ! and so on and so on until your back gets so bent that you will get injured.
i mean rEALLY injured... i've seen people DIE from so called "friendship" and get Injured severly...
so listen to your TRUE friends who is trying to help you.
realize THIS!!!
"YOU are not the only person who is gettin hurt out of all this! think about people who ACTUALLY CARES ABOUT you! do you think they are happy with all this! NO SIRREE! even i am getting pissed of at your so called bf when i dont even know you!"
and mostly YOUR other friends will be hurting if you dont do something to solve this!
so please email me and i will do my best to help you out!
i know you've been hurt and you are still hurting but trust me please...
pinkfairy1773@aol.com
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oh my gosh... thank you so much! i get what your saying and i'm glad i'm able to see this through a different prospective... thanks a ton.. i'll email you asap to let you know how things are going... xoxo love ya!
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