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Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!


Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have

well...comming from a guy, i get the impression that my girlfriend feels ALMOST the same about me, about obesessive...but all i do is what i think i should be doing during a relationship, and thats giving her attention. That is probably all he is trying to do, give you the attention that he deserves, and (this is my opinion) i would think it is absolutly crap to get dumped cause my girl doesnt get that i am doing all i can. All i would want her to do is talk to be about it, thats what you should prolly do to him, tell him that you know he isnt, but you get the feeling he is obsessive and you would like him to "calm down" as my girl said it. Then go a lil slower. Ok, with him supposably flirting with your friend, 99.999999% of the time that a girl flirts with a guy, especally if he is half attractive and used to girls flirtin with him, he will flirt back, its instinct, ive done it, i know other guys do it, its just...i dunno, habit for lack of better word...so try not to get bent out of shape because of it, and everything else he does, well i would take advantage of it, i get really mad whenever my girl ignores me and i do all i can to get her attention, she takes a little advantage, but she doesnt ever give me anything back, if you want to keep him happy (this is down the road info) then give him some attention too, and if you are really getting irritated with him, just tell him you wanna take a break, not break up, just go a few months without really talking or seeing each other, that way you have time to truly think about what you want to do... OR if all else fails, do what i do...flip a coin, God will provide the answers, you just have to look...

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(Rating: 5) OMG thnx for all the good advice...but i just have one more thing....for flirting wit my friend he told her to take her clothes off (this was all online tho) so i dunno if that makes a diff. or not thnx again!

~StEfF
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