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Oh, don't worry, he totally likes you. In fact, he likes you so much that he's going to propose to you (even if you're only thirteen) and you guys are going to get married, and live together happily ever after forever and always and have ten children in the country with the best jobs ever until you die at an old age together in your sleep!

If you know that's not how life works, and you want some real advice, you have my undivided attention. Ask me anything, and I'll try and figure it out for you (unless it has anything to do with geometry).

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Okay, two friends Brooke and Anne. Anne likes Eddie, and Eddie likes Brooke, and Brooke and Anne and me are great freinds. Thing is, all Anne ever does is talk about Eddie, and when Brooke and Anne and Eddie are online in a little "buddy chat" Eddie will say that Anne is pretty, and funny, and then outside of the "buddychat" he will i/m (instant message) Brooke and say, "she's not pretty, She's not funny" its so horrible. Now, all Anne says is that she really likes Eddie, but Eddie likes Brooke. All the time she talks about him, and she always asks questions like, do I look okay, and do you really think he likes me? and I always say yes, but its like I have two people telling me things, one through each ear. Anyways, heres the huge part, Anne and Eddie are going to be working together this summer, as life guards. And, so Anne thinks she has a shot with him. Now, two nights ago, Eddie and Brooke went to the movies, and they made out. Anne would NEVER make out with anyone. But Brooke wont go past that. I know this is really confusing, but they both come to me about it. And Anne and her boyfriend recently broke up, so Brooke and me think thats why she likes Eddie, because its the first guy that she thought of after they broke up. At first, the first time i had heard of Eddie was through Brooke, she was going to bring him to six flags with me and My boyfriend. But now Anne likes him. and she says that he asked her out in 6th grade but she said she had to think about it. last weekend, Brooke, Anne and I went to a movie, and Eddie was there, and Brooke was very social, and was striking up and conversation, and Anne wasnt, she just said hi, and was asking me if she looked okay. So I dont know what to do any more.

Any sugestions? Brooke and I know we have to tell Anne, but we have dropped every hint, and I even told her that we think its because her and her boyfriend broke up, and that she should stop liking him. she asked me the other day what I did when i liked a guy that didnt like me back, and i said just move on, and i told her that was the story of my life, until now, i have a great boyfriend, and Brooke and Anne both wish they had a guy like him- we've been together over 15 months!- anyways, and i toled her it was pretty much the story if every other girls life too!

Help Please!
I Know you guys hate these types of questions!
Sorry, I tried to make it as least confusing as possible, but it is confusing enough to live.
Thank you guys so much in advance!!

-KeLsA-


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I think your friends have ranked more annoying than mine... Congradulations? Um, okay. This is a delicate situation, but personally, I'd be frank with Anne about it. Tell her that Eddie doesn't like her, and that he does like Brooke. (Leave out the part about them making out, unless she still, for some reason, thinks she has a chance. And keep in mind, that this might make her mad at Brooke)... it doesn't sound like Brooke actually wants to officially date Eddie or anything, so, as long as she doesn't do that, there should be no real problem between Anne and Brooke. Anne might get jealous, but it's better for her to be jealous than truly heart broken again. And the longer you don't tell Anne, the more upset she'll be when she finds out.


Anne is probably picking up on the hints already, just refusing to believe them. And if Eddie keeps saying these things about her, then it could be percieved as him flirting. Maybe get Brooke to tell Eddie to stop doing that. Not for him to be mean or anything, just like not say that she's pretty or whatever else... if she asked you what to do when a guy didn't like you back, it pretty much means she's picked up on the fact that Eddie doesn't like her. Even if she gets really hurt or upset when you tell her, it's better now than in the long run...

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