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HEY EVERYBODY,MY NAME IS TANIQUA AND I'M 15 YEARS OLD. I'M A SOPHMORE AND I GO TO MORTON WEST HIGH SCHOOL.I LOVE HELPING PEOPLE WITH THEIR PROBLEMS AND PEOPLE THAT ARE LESS FORTUNATE THAN ME. I'M A REALLY NICE GIRL AND FUN TO BE WITH.

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Today, my Aunt, who is like my *best friend in the world!!!* passed away suddenly. I'm completely devastated.. Saturday is the wake, and on Sunday is the funeral the funeral; I have to answer tomorrow on whether I have chosen to attend these events or not. I've been told over and over that it is MY decision, and no one will be angry with me either way. Honestly, I'm scared... I don't know quite what these event entail, so I was wondering if someone could possibly share their past experiences, and even views on what a funeral means to *YOU. I feel that I would like to remember her how she WAS... and not the day of her funeral. And yes, I know that just because I attend the funeral I will STILL have my memories of her and such, it's just an upsetting thought that my last time seeing her would be at her funeral. On the other hand, I feel I should be there to support my family; and maybe like it's a true final farewell? I'm not really sure; I guess I'm just so overwhelmed. But any answer on this would be greatly appreciated. Thank you -- "Mackenzie"

Well Mackengie, you have to be strong and tough, I know its hard to lose someone you love, but your aunt wouldn't want you to be depressed and sad. It's your decision, but my advice to you is to think of all the great and exciting moments you and her shared together. Like I told someone, she's not really dead, because she'll have a special place in your heart forever.

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Taniqua's-teen-advice
Illinois, 13

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