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Q: Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, he was the first love of my life. We went out for almost a year, and we loved eachother so much.Well we were really serious about eachother and we had so much fun and it was so crazy, and I knew he loved me. Well until the beginning of this year he went to a different school district and he completely changed...But I know thats not him and thats not how he wants to be because he jsut completely changed the 2nd day he started going to his new school..well we eventually broke up, and then went back out 1 or 2 months after, and he wasnt the same and he hurt me. But I know thats not him and thats why it makes me so upset. And ive tried giving so many guys chances and it jsut doesnt work cause I think about him all the time, and ive waited for a guy that i actually like to come along. And im so confused cause I see my ex every now and then and I see him just looking at me. And my friends tell me he still loves me cause he cant go from loving me one day to completely not loving me and he told them that he loved me cause they are his friends too. And im just so confused cause hes stuborn, and if he does love me why doesnt he tell me? Because I know if I asked him he would be too shy and wouldnt tell me because he hurt me..
Please help me....
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Gahhh!!! Guys are so dumb!!!
I'm so sorry, I know how bad all of that sucks. I've got a friend in a similar situation. They went out for a long time and were totally in love, then they broke up and she still loves him, but he's really cold towards her.
Sometimes you just have to accept the changes in people, even if you know they aren't right. You say it isn't really him, but it may well be. I know how much it sucks to watch people change in ways you don't like, but it happens.
If you still love him, and I mean the new him, not what you remember him as, it sounds like he loves you too, so go for it. Talk to him. Let him know you care. If not, that's the way it goes.
Goodluck.
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Thnx so much, cause u made me see that I do love him, even the new him. I love him to the point where he could be retarded and id still love him. Thanks for the advice cause i might jsut go and talk to him :-)
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My name is Deanna: aka manrashi, banana, deanimal
I'm 15 and I like answering questions. I try to be as competent, coherant, and helpful as possible. Everyone is welcome to ask me questions personally, as it it makes me feel special.
I LOOOVE cooking and drawing and other artistic type things. I also like altering photos and making avvies/icons in photoshop, so I will take any requests for those as well. (email or IM me).
Please rate my advice, and rate it fairly. If I deserve a 2, go ahead and give me one, you won't hurt my feelings.
Pet peeve: people who answer questions just to say "That sucks, I don't know. Sux 2 B u."(If you don't know, why are you answering?) and people who say "Hope I helped!" (Obviously, or you wouldn't have an advice column)
Haha, sorry.
I'm out.
>>-Deanna->
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Texas Occupation: Student Age: 15 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: deanimal90@hotmail.com Member Since: December 20, 2003 Answers: 218 Last Update: March 11, 2007 Visitors: 14668
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