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i really like this boy, and my friend found out that i liked him, and she's being stirring rumours that arent true and she found out that the boy i like has alot of common things with me and she is trying to be his perfect image which is me i recently found out that they are going out what should i do
i dont understand why she didnt want to tell me to see how i feel about it
and now the person that i found out that she thinks there is something going on between me and him
i really don't kow what to do
Well, first off. She is NOT a friend. Friends do not go behind your back spreading rumours. Friends do not find out you like a guy and set out to take him from you. Friends care and will not do things to purposely hurt you. She did all of this on purpose. She planned and plotted and has now gone out with the guy. She knows she's not what this guy thinks she is. THAT is why she is paranoid that you and him are together behinde her back. I say find out who your REAL friends are. Guys are notoriously stupid when it comes to women, so I'm not sure if you'll be able to cold bloodedly take him away from her. Even though she isn't a friend though, there is an old saying that makes great practical sense. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." This basically means don't let her realize you know she's not your friend. Keep her in your circle to be able to keep a close eye on her actions and to know what she's saying. This is a difficult thing to do. Some people can't manage it, if you can't don't worry too much. Just drop her and make sure you are the truest friend to the people around you that you can be. Loyalty does count in this world. As for the guy, hopefully he'll learn quickly what a fake she is and dump her. Stay close to him, be nice. Flirt a little, but don't bad mouth her. Bad mouthing tends to make guys stubborn and will work against you rather than for you. This is a tough situationa dn I wish you luck!
(Rating: 5) thank you for the advise, i am not sure if i am that cold blooded i always believe in doing the right thing, not what's best for me, you have really helped me thank you and God bless