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**** I've been gone quite a long time. However I'm still breathing though it's touch and go. Don't expect me to answer or check in much. ****Welcome to the junkdrawer that is my brain! I know something about many things, and I if I don't know it, I admit that I don't know. That I am constantly finding things I know nothing about and correcting that ignorance keeps me busy and happy. More junk for the drawer.
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Okay here's the story, me and my bf have been together for over two years now and it's getting to the time where I need to decide on a college there this is one college that I was looking into because it had a an excellent animal sciences program but it isn't exactly close and I would have to live on campus. He told me that he couldn't handle me being far away and if I left that he would break up with me. Now there is a school closer to us that I could go to but then I'd have to pick a different major. So wait I am trying to figure out is should I go or should I stay?
You can not allow him to choose your future. Comprimize is essential in any solid relationship, but to give up your dreams because he's being selfish is no way to live. If you change majors for him and you eventually marry, you WILL resent him for the rest of your life. You will always wonder what if, and bitterness will eventually distroy your relationship and marriage. If children are involved by this time there will be untold suffering for them as well. Now, if you choose to change majors and you break up, you will be extremely bitter and angry at yourself as well as him. If you choose to follow your dreams and he comes to realize what a moronicly selfish thing he was asking of you and stays with you AND faithful then you could have a great relationship that will grow closer as the years pass. If he dumps you for doing what you have always dreamed of and that is important to you, then I am sorry to say that you have wasted two years with a complete loser and are far better off with him out of your life. There will be a man out there who will love and respect you enough to support your dreams as you are willing to support his. Life is not easy. Sometimes what we have is not what we need, and sometimes it is what we need but must to be fought for to be kept healthy and worthwile. Hope this insight helps, it comes from more experience than you could ever imagine.
(Rating: 5) Thank hun, that means alot to me.