hey! im a 16 yr old female from south east wisconsin. i been thru quite a bit of stuff and i have problems of my own...who doesnt have problems right? well anyways talkin is my thing. i kno that i love to have sum1 to just spill my heart out to whether im really close with them or not. if u have anything u want to ask me about pretty much anything feel free to. im always gonna be here if u need some help on something so juss give me a buzz....~!~xoxo~!~
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The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here? Its kinda crazy, Kinda hard to sleep and eat, with this decision totally on my own. (link)
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sit down and talk to your boyfriend...before you go find out make sure he knows that there is a possibility that in 9months he could be a daddy and make sure he understands all of that...make sure he plans to stick around and take care of his baby(if you are preggo)...talk to him about it before you go...im sure he already knows of the possiblity but still talk to him...and then go get tested..and have him go with you when you get tested..that way you both find out the news at the same time...if it does come back positive then you should sit down with his parents and your parents all together and break the news to them all at once...that way you dont have to do it 2 times...make sure they all kno that the 2 of you plan to stay together no matter what happens with the baby...i strongly advise you not to abort the baby if you are pregnant i know some people who have had abortions and it ruins their lives...they think about the fact that they erased the chance of a human life emotionally tears them up you do not want to have to deal with that...if you decide that you are not able to take care of your child talk to close family members that want a child about adopting the baby...or just looking after the baby until you and your boyfriend get on your feet and can care for the child...or you can put the baby up for open adoption (that way you and your boyfriend get to chose your child's new parents) and you will be able to keep in touch with your child as he or she grows up...ive heard it works better with open adooption because then throughout the pregnancy you get to kno the people and become close with them...that way you are able to see "your" child after the adoption is final...i kno this is a lot to take in but that is my best advise for you...hope everything works out...let me kno how everything goes.. and if i can help you with anything else...best wishes
~nichole~
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Thanks so much, that helps a lot it really does. Yes my boyfriend he is aware of the possibility.. But I dont think he totally understands. Ill send you a message or comment.. when it happens, And im Sure ill be back a LOT if its positive.. The hardest part is telilng the parents But thanks so much
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