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Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?

Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long.

This girl is insecure, and taking out her insecurity on you, since you're her close friend. Making you look bad infront of others makes her feel good about herself. I think you should stop talking to her, hard as it may be, because you are BETTER OFF WITHOUT her aroudn to put you down. Friends raise one another's spirits and their role is to be there for you and never disrespect you, and this one is going beyond breaking what a good friend is. Anyone with an attitude like hers does not DESERVE friends - why should you put up with her shit? Either tell her to set her standards right, or walk away for the best. Good luck.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!!
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