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me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago and hes already talking to a few new girls. people warned me that he was like this before i went out with him. i had been "talking" with him since december and we finally started going out in march. he got mad at me over something really small so now he "hates" me but the thing is yesterday he called me to hang out..i was really confused and when i tryed talking to him later that night he was like fuck you im busy talking to my girlfriend. i still like him alot i had so much fun with him. hes a really great guy but i dont know what to do... hes really hard to get over. what should i do?!? (link)
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It sounds as if you've answered your own question
1) people warned you about him, 2) he says he hates you over something really small, and 3) he dismisses you when it was him that approached you in the first place. He doesnt sound like someone that is worth fighting for does he?! I know that sounds harsh but be honest with yourself- are you just lusting over him because he's something you can't have at the moment? The grass is always greener on the other side and all that. It'll of course take time to get over him but it'll be so much better in the long run- just try to keep out of his way, be civilised and if you ignore him to an extent he may come to his senses and realise its you he wanted anyway. By you playing hard to get yourself who knows? He may come running back. However just bear in mind whether he's worth it. Good luck
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