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My name is Amanda and I am a proud single parent of a beautiful 2 year old girl named *Brianna Marie*! I am also a child care teacher and a student. I am seeking an associates in massage therapy and skin care. I currently reside in Orlando Fl, but hope to soon go back home to HOTLANTA!! :D If there is anything else ya wanna know hey ... why not ask?! ;)ADVICE WARNING: You are at high risk of receiving advice containing extreme sarcasm .. among other things! HA! If ya don't like it run while you can .... you're about to reach the point of no return ... go ... before it's too late!! AHHHH!!
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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
Before I answer your question I just want to make a comment regarding an answer you've already received!
MrsRadcliffe:
Haven't you ever heard of a condom breaking? Or perhaps of that 1% with birth control?? Don't say that if a girl is "stupid enough to have sex without using protection then she should pay for it!" For your information I am one of those "stupid girls" that you are refering to and people like you make me sick. Didn't your mother ever use the saying don't judge a book by it's cover with you?? I used a condom, it broke and I used birth control as well and it failed. And although I took the responsibility of my child not every woman does and that's their personal choice. Regardless of what you think. I don't like smoking....so should smoking be illegal?? If my friend smokes should I hate her too?? AAAHHH....Ok...I have to stop now because I'm getting too angry and disgusted!!
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I think you pretty much get were I'm trying to go with this. It is wrong for you to judge this girl without knowing anything about her but the fact that she has had an abortion. Nobody's saying you have to be friends with her, but you have no right to hate her. Tell her how you feel about it if you like...but don't bash her for it...just like you don't want anyone bashing you for the way you feel! Get it? I hope so! :)
You have every right to how you feel, but other people shouldn't have to suffer because of it. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and beliefs. Who are you to judge them?? I have friends that have had abortions and although I didn't agree with the choice they made they are still my FRIENDS and that's all that matters!! Friends are suppose to be forever. Not until they have abortions!
I'm not trying to make a personal attack on you for your opinion. Please don't take it that way...I just want you to understand it from another point of view and perhaps you'll understand how other people feel.
There are a million other things I could say as examples of pre-judging and so forth, but I think I've said too much already. Hopefully you understand what I'm trying to say and don't take it the wrong way....I was just trying to give you my honest opinion which is what you asked for!! :)
Best of luck to you!
~ Amanda ;)
(Rating: 5) Thank you. The only difference is that you were not a dumb teenage girl going and sleeping with a random guy. Even if it was some random guy that helped bless you with your baby girl, you were protecting yourself in every way that was possible. This girl did not protect herself which is what she admitted. Thank you for not being so judgemental about my feelings. My boyfriend and I of nearly a year have had sex before and it was because we wanted to take our relationship to the next level. She just slept with some random guy. Thank you very much for your input on this subject.