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Q: ok, so i imed this guy i liked 2 days ago, and he was talking a lot and asking me stuff..and he usually never does this so i was excited. And i wanted to ask him to this dance for friday..my friend talked to him at lunch and asked him if he wud say yes if i aksed him and she sed that he sed "prolly yes", and that he seemed enthusiastic about it. So then today, i imed him and he didnt say word...and then put an away up.. Should i not ask him, and do you think that he doesnt like me? Thanks.
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Hey there,
Ahh .. the world of life and love... IM is a really hard way to meet people ... you never really know how that person is putting on a persona, no matter how authentic he or she may seem. This guy on the other hand may have just gotten scared and didn't know how to respond to your invitation. Question ... have you met this guy before in person, or is purly a written correspondence so far? I'd take a less forward approach and start of your next convo with "hi" how's your day, and talk about stuff you usually do, then as he gets more comfortable ask him why he failed to respond to your invitation. If he's scared he may just reveal that ... if he doesn't want to go, he may say that as well (in which case, girl there are much better guys than him to go with ...) Hey even going to dances with a bunch of gal friends is a blast ... let me know know if there is anything else I can help with .. .aly_boschee@yaoo.com
take care and have a great time at the dance ...
alyssa
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hey i didnt' ask him right away, i just sed hi and he went away so idk wat to but thanks for the aweosme advice :)
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I grew up in Calgary Canada mostly, recieved a degree in psychology, moved around a lot as a child and recently just made a move to Oceanside California. I've had my ups and downs, some caused externally, some that I caused myself .. and am still in the learning life 101 class I was placed in 23 years ago, but having fun at it at the same time! I truly believe everyone has one fundamental thing in common, we all want happiness ... and as gullible as it may sound I believe everyone needs someone to believe in them or help them believe in themselves ... if you have a question, and your scared to post it publically feel free to e-mail me at aly_boschee@yahoo.com. I'll answer to every each one of you! Hey if you just want a friend to chat with ... feel free! ;) Look forward to hearing from all of you ...
" An unfortunate past is never an excuse to continue negative thinking in the present." - We've all had some sort of struggle in our past, we can not let these events control us ... it's in you to do with what you have!
" The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for." - we all deserve happiness, what is happiness to you? Just remember the golden rule, what you undo to others will be undone to you. To be happy treat others as you want to be treated. In addition, you'll just feel great knowing your making a postive print in this lifetime!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Oceanside, CA Occupation: Public Relations Age: 23 Yahoo: Member Since: March 10, 2005 Answers: 36 Last Update: December 21, 2005 Visitors: 4580
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