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wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
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i dont personally cut but i have a friend who does. she said it is an addiction just like smoking. to stop you just to have a lot of self control. remember cutting doesnt take away the pain it just transfers it from emotional pain to physical pain. i think you should talk to an adult that you are comfortable with (i.e: your mom,dad,aunt,cousins,grandparents,etc.)
if you continue cutting you may need therapy. which isn't a bad thing. i know plenty of people who have gone to therapy.
always remember you are never alone and by cutting yourself you are not only hurting yourself but also the people who care about you (that sounds really corny but it is true)
i hope that helps. feel free to IM me.
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