No, you are not wrong at all for being offended. This girl is only using you as a means of convience. When her "other" friend is not around, that is when she wants to be your best friend. A true best friend waits for you regardless of her other friends. She talks to you when other people are around, and she doesn't use you when it is convient for her. You need to ask her why she acts that way. Let her know that if she can't be a true friend to you all of the time, then you don't need a part time friend.

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