You should definitely say something to your snooty cousin. Family is family, and she has no right to act the way she does. Talk to your mother and/or other cousins about it, and ask them if they noticed the way she was acting. Pull her aside today before the party starts and let her know how you feel about the way she acted last night towards your family members. Let her know that she was being rude and really mean and made other people around her uncomfortable. Ask her why she feels the need to brag about everything and feel the need to be rude. It could be that your cousin is insecure about herself and her insecurity is coming off as snottiness. If she continues to be mean and/or rude to you, then avoid her as much as possible for the rest of her visit. Just because she wants to be nasty, doesn't mean that she has to ruin your time with the rest of your family.

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