mrs_radcliffe's advice column

My best friend and I are both girls and I'm 14 and she's 13. We have experimented 3 times and we've liked it each time(nothing below the belt). On one day she says she wants a boyfriend really bad,then other days she says that she wishes she could be with me and life would be so much easier and i'm the only one who listens to her seriously and cares and truly understands.I feels she very insecure about her liking for me because she feels God won't love us becuase she's sinning and that her parents will not except her anymore. Her parents barely except her now and they really don't take her seriously and they really don't trust her with the simpliest things. I wonder if she really wants to be with me because she would believe that our love for each other can't stop God from loving us and our love can conquer over her parents. Also on some days she made a strong statement that she wants to find her partner in life thats a man. She would only go for woman if they were the last human species on earth. I thought that was harsh and cold blooded because every time we experimented we never thought about any males while we were being affectionate to each other. I know for sure i'm bisexual and i'm comfortable with that, but the way my best friend talks it seems like she's confused big time about herself. I'm wondering if i should talk to her about it or she just needs to figure it out on her own. I'm ready to talk to her about it, but i want a second option on what I should do.

Give her some space and time she will come round and find that she needs you as much as you need her. If her parents are like that then they should be able to understand but i guess they might find it a bit hard to because of the way they are. God loves everyone no matter if you sin or who you fall for its not your fault you have these feelings.

luv roxie

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, exactly my point!

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