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So many people in my grade have a b/f or g/f but they don't take it seriuosly. In the hall all they do is say "hey" to each other, they talk to each other on-line about "who knows what?" and in their binders they write "I love----". They don't talk on the fone or anything like that.I feel so left out, but if i ask a girl out it would be weird for me to be going out w/ a girl and telling everyone, but the girl wouldn't look me in the eye or anything like that. it's so stupid. What could i do so i don't feel left out? (link)
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Well, I'm guessing your a little younger, since you didn't put your age... Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, since then I might have a little different advice to give..
Anyways, don't feel that you need to have a girlfriend just because your friends do. It seems to me that you don't even really like the kind of relationship they have, and would prefer a more mature relationship. If you do want a girlfriend, maybe she doesn't have to be from your school. Try meeting a girl through church, or an after school club. If you don't go to school together, you would probably end up talking on the phone more often, and thus it would be a more serious relationship, like you said you wanted. It wouldn't be awkward at school this way, but you would still have the luxury of saying you have a girlfriend. If you don't want to do that, I would suggest waiting until the right girl comes along at the right time, and you can have a serious relationship, since you would probably be unhappy and frustrated if your girlfriend never made eye contact with you or held a meaningful conversation with you. I hoped this helped, good luck and let me know how it goes!!!
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