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Okay, well I am in 6th grade. Me and my best friend have been soo close through elementary school and are families are so close and we even own a beach house togehter. Well, see Through out this month we have started to grow apart. She is trying to be like her older sister (preppiesh) and like that but before she started wanting to be like her older sister she hated the way preps were and that they were retarted and stuff. Well, now she has become a prep and is being someone she isn't. She used to hate this one prep and now she is like trying to be her closet friend. I hate the way she is being. I am hopeing it is just a phase but if it isn't I think we will be spilt up and stuff. I wish I could tell her this but since we are growing apart I don't know what to do. I used do everything to be her best friend because she wanted to end the friendship but now it's different I don't know if I would really care to not be her best friend. I have a boyfriend and since this one night I haven't told her really much about him. I don't know why I want to but then there is something stopping me. I need help. She thinks I don't trust her anymore but I don't know if that is true or not?? Please help!
It sounds like a phase to me. But like you said you never know. I would try talkin to her. But start out with.. Hey I just wanted to ask you if you think that you have changed at all... if she says no then start askin her who she thinks is her best friend, and have her stores that she buys her clothes at changed. Try to show her that things are not right. Also, just wait til next year in midde school everything changes. litterally EVERYTHING.. people split off into so amny groups and other schools come together. Just keep a place for her there and if she ever comes cryin back make sure that you tell her you arent goin to be there for her unless she can say she wont walk out on you like she did here. Good luck
If she says anything just tell her " some people come into your life and walk back out with no effect; others come into your life and leave footprints on your heart" Ask her what she thinks your shoe size is because most likely you left footprints.
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