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sorry its so long..but please help.. 16/f Okay i think i have a problem with my attitude with my boyfriend.. like i am so happy with him and we kid around an stuff but for some weird reason out of no where i become a bitch.. i reall cant explain why all the sudden i become like that.. i dont get like that with anybody else but him.. we have been together 8 months.. and probably ever since december i been like this.. i really try to understand my self and try to get why im like that but i cant.. he never gets mad about it or anything really he usually sits there and says *aw my baby's mad* then like i cant be mad anymore... which like i said i dont know why i am in the first place... but after a while he'll ask whats wrong when he knows im calm down and he's holding me.. and i tell him *i dont know whats wrong* then he thinks that i dont wanna share my problems with him...which its not that i cant tell him whats wrong if i dont know my self...then he gets mad bout it and then *i cry* thats one of the worst feelings i get is when i see him mad or sad at me or around me.. and then after that he gets like sad cause i cried.. i really want this to stop.. this doesnt happen everyday..maybe like once or twice a week but thats too many times and its gettin old..my friend told me she thought i was doin it for attention.. which i thought bout that for a while... but i get all the attention i need from him.. this is really my first actual relationship with a guy so i havent been like that with anybody else and he the first guy ive actually loved.. but i guess i need advice to understand why i might be like this and what might cause me to be like that.. and if anybody else is like that please explain why you are.. i'll rate anything high as long as it helps in some sort of way..much luv and thanks in advance to who ever answers.. (link)
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Dear,
It might be that you are under a lot of stress and you are taking it out on him or that you keep your feelings to yourself when it comes to other people and then you compensate with shouting at your boyfriend because he is there for you. I think the best way to sort this thing out is to tell him what you wrote here, that you do not know why you are getting mad and maybe he could help you get trough it. Also this might be caused by problems that are on you mind that you are not confronting. Just sometimes sit down for an hour or so and think though all the things that bother you and that are going on in your life at the moment. But most importantly, be honest with him and talk to him about it, because he sound like a nice guy who cares and will understand.
Good luck!
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i loved your advice and now that i thought bout what you said i think that might be it.. i've had alot going on with me and my family and a sickness i have.. if i could rate you higher i would.. thatks alot and its very helpful..much luv x0x0
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