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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?

Umm... yes it is you shouldn't have sex with him you are to young to really even be thinking about that. If he asks you again give him a firm answer like, "NO" and don't follow your friends, you might think it is cool at the time but later in life it won't be. Really and be honest with him and if and when you do tell him no and then he gets mad and brakes up with you, you know he was never worth having. A real guy would understand. Hope I was some help!~Chrissie

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