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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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I've been dating this girl for quite some time now and we've just recently slept together for the first time. I'm 24 and she's 18. She wasn't a virgin so it's nothing like that but after the sex, it felt extremely wrong. I never wanted to ask her out in the first place because I was 6 years older than her but my friends kept saying that "It's not a big deal; You're both adults, 6 years isn't much, blah, blah, blah etc." So I eventually asked her out and I'm glad I did because she's an amazing girl. Her being only 18 did bug me before but not as much as it does now. The sex was great and everything and it wasn't until after we finished that I started to feel like absolute shit. If it helps any, it happened on Saturday night and now, I've been trying to avoid her. I still have strong feelings for her and I don't want to end things with us, but I just don't know how to get past this. I'm not quite sure why I feel this way either. I want to talk to her but what am I supposed to say, "Hey Hun, I felt like I raped you the other night...How did you feel about it? Did you feel as if you were being raped?" I don't think I can sleep with her again until I get past this and I'm not sure talking to her about it will help.

You didn't rape her if she agreed to it and she is of legal age just like you. My neighbors are 6 years apart and had a baby a couple of years ago. 6 years doesn't matter much once you are like 18.


*yea i guess i didn't hmm sorry.*
i guess you would just have to figure out why you felt the way you did.

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