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i have blonde hair blue eyes! i guess you could say im funny, im outgoing,and i get really scared REALLY easily! haha lucy! the ring 2! um i hope u like my advise i've given. I LOVE to have fun! its like almost impossible for me to have fun unless my bestest friend shelbi isnt havin fun! shelbi is my hero!! she always makes me happy!that pic right there(

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this is going to be very long. I'm in love with this guy and i have been for about 8 months i would say. We have been having sex for a year now and he just thought of me as u kno-a sex friend. I'm the only one he's been having it with since we started bein together but ive had past partners,one was his really close friend,and now i've quit for him. He got me pregnate. Yes, im 2 1/2 months pregnate with his baby. And i love him. I know evry day girls say "oh i love him soo much" But this is for real. I've lied 4 him. been through court 4 him, fought girls 4 him, and gave up my boyfriend 4 him. Whenever i tell him how i feel he says "I care about u too but i`m just not ready to go out with you...i do love you and i do wanna be with you...I just can't.." or he uses diff. excuses how 'i went wit his friend he can't do that to him' WELL Y NOT?! I try avoiding him..you know, trying to make him miss me and come crawling back to me.. but that's hard to do when he's the cutest most popular guy in school with girls practically lined up. He doesn't need me. I need advice..what should i do? i know i can't make him love me back..but maybe just to have him want to be with me and understand how i feel a little more. Don't say love notes-cuz i tried...or phone calls..or long talks..i tried everything. Don't call me dumb..please!!! i`m just hopelessly in love.... =( help!


plz dont erase this!!! i rate mainly 5's!

im soo sry you are going through this! maybe you just think you're in love but after all he HAS to love you to have sex with you. if he enjoys it with YOU then he does love you. i think he is just scared. tell him what you thik aout everything.and as far as i am concerned you shouldnt have let him have sex with you more than at least 3 times if hes going to say that!
just tell him that if he has sex with you then he obviously loves you and your preganant with HIS BABY! i know you can have sex and not love the person but if you do it for 1 year a lot then DUH HE LOVES YOU! HES JUS TOO SCARED TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP! BECAUSE HES SCARED HES GOING TO GET HURT BUT I DONT SEE WHY!!! if u need any more advice send me some to bgurl_04@hotmail.com luv ya and good luck! hope i helped! bye
~!~!BeThY!~!~

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(Rating: 5) aww thanks girl...yeah well the first time we did it..i didnt love him..he didnt love me-it wuz like..a 1 night thing *yes im ashamed* but the 2nd time-i wuz like damn...i love him. but thanks for ur advice =) !
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