sarah0308's advice column

my name is sarah. or doodle. i'm 16 and now a junior at SMHS. HATE IT! i play slowpitch and fastpitch softball. im verrrry sarcastic. you'll never know if i'm being serious or not. i'd have to say i've been through a lot, but you might not think so. try me, i could surprise you =)

advice

okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend

you are a good friend for wanting to help her...she needs to tell someone whats going on because a girl should never be treated like that. if she doesn't to tell anyone, then i think you should. if she gets mad at you for telling someone, then talk to her about it and tell her how important it is that she needs to get away from him. he is treating her horribly and that is terrible!
~*Sarah*~

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(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch!

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