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okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
just not the same*

First of all how do you know hes gay? and just think of it as a plus that hes gay . now you and him and your other girl friend can all sit around and talk about guys and he can help you explain why a guys being a jerk or soemthing cause he is one so he understands them better.and if you dont want to do that .then just confront him about his "gayness" maybe he isnt actually gay. i mean there are tons of rumors in middle school way to much drama for anyone to live with.and he probably isnt sure if he wants to be gay yet i mean he is only 13 or 14. maybe he just thinks he will have better luck with guys then girls. so maybe if you can get him a girlfriend he will change.it just all depends on so many factors.and when you do see him talking to another guy just remember its like you tlaking to a guy or guys talking to girls theres nothing wrong with it.

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