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Q: ok, say his guy's name is bob. now bob is 13 and in 7th grade and i am 14 and i am in 8th grade. now bob went out with a girl, say her name was "jane". jane is 14 and in 8thgrade and also a friend of mine, not a good friend, but a friend none the less. so bob and jane went out and jane about 2 weeks later dumps him. bob is really pissed and tells her to shove it and is obviously hurt. i haven't talked to bob since then and i really wanna go out with him. how long should i wait for him to get over the breakup. also once that time has come, how can i let him know my feelings that i wanna go out with him but not have things being awkward if he says no. i really don't want to tell him myself. ohh, and will jane think of me as a traitor if i date him? please tell me what to do. the more intimacy in your answer, the better i'll rate. but i rate good ne ways. please help!!

screw the friend. she isnt close and she hurt the guys feelings and acted like a clod. wait two week by the 'rules' or say 'f the rules' and just ask him when ever. your feeligns for him are stronger, rite?

**_Nicole_**

Rating: 4

that's real brutal...but true

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