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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?
First things first NO ONE here is entitled to call you a slut or whore, you're not. If you were to make the biggest mistake of your life it would be to abort the baby. Do you really want to kill your baby. Just think of the joy of having the baby in your arms. I can understand *mike* for not wanting to have anything to do with it, it is his mistake too, he should step up for his fault but you can't do anything about that. You probably will have to raise the baby on your own. I know it's tough, but it's much worse killing the baby. A woman I knew had an abortion and i just killed her when she was married and had kids to think she herself killed one because of her mistake. She wrote a letter to her baby asking the baby for forgiveness. She said that when had her baby a couple years after the abortion she cried because she could only think of the baby she could have have. She asked the baby to forgive her that she wasnt a cruel person and she loved the baby. over 1,000,000 babies are killed each year through abortion. You can always put the baby up for adoption if you can't afford. Good luck, I hope all is well for you and you have a healthy baby!
(Rating: 5) You're a kinda person I wanna talk to!!! Thanks for giving an honest and really really really good opinion. I SOOOO agree with you. I mean- My mom said she'll be happy with any of my decision and my dad thinks it's good for me. I understand that my first few years with it will suck ya know? I got to sacrifice a lot of things..but later on in life-i`ll be soooo happy...on the other hand, if I abort it...it'll be good now but later on...i can never forgive myself ya know? People like my friends. are saying mike will change his mind and stuff later on..but my boyfriend outta jail-said he loves me so much and HE wants to be here by my side...I consider him more of the father than mike..well thanks for everything=)