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I am thirteen and I have lots of friends at school but my best friend is scared to spend the night at my house. In order to try to get her to, I have to either pay her money or give her my most valuable possesion. It's really gay. If she spends the night at my house, she has to have another friend come WITH her and she picks people that I hate to come so she's never been over to my house! How can I get her to spend the night at my house without having to bribe or pay her? HELP!!! ASAP!!!
When you were young, were you ever afraid of the dark? Or maybe clowns or sharks? We all have our fears that are hard to tame. For instance, when I was little, I saw a show on TV that scared me. After I saw that, I grew very afraid of television in general. Whenever someone would turn on the TV that was near me, I would freak out and have to leave the room. It's kind of like a weird phobia. That's how your friend is feeling about spending the night. Though I can't explain why she would need someone else to come with her (as for the money, everybody loves money =P), maybe you should just hang tight a while and let her grow out of it. Like alot of things, it's probobly a phase that she is approaching late in life. Does she sleep over at other people's houses or is she afraid of going away in general? Maybe you should talk about her in depth about her fears and perhaps you (being her best friend and all) could comfort her and make her feel better. If you ever need any more advice, feel free to ask me a question directly. Good luck!
(Rating: 5) I did whay you said and it wroekd out great! I have found a wonderful group of friends and everythings o.k! You made a differnece! LOL. :) Thnx sooooooooooooo much