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What's the next best thing to a magical potion that cures all your problems? A firari! But, since we can't give you either of those, we're offering you the best advice on the web. When the going get's rough, you gotta keep tough and since that seems to be quite an issue these days (and since we've got enough toughness to go around), icy is the best place for advice!
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So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
I can totally relate because I've been in this similar situation many times. Since you guys are close, ask him casually "do you think there would ever been an 'us'"? This will sort of give him a hint but also let him know that you are thinking more towards the long run then really soon. It will probobly make him start thinking about you as more than a friend if he hasn't already. This is the first step and it will work extremely well especially since you already have a feeling that he might have feelings for you. This is also really good since it exercises your communication skills with him and it will help the two of you grow closer if you find the ability to talk to him about things like this, even if it feels kind of weird at first. Good luck and if you ever need any other advice, feel free to ask me, because iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENING ♥
(Rating: 5) Thanks :) I hope eventually I get the courage to talk to him... and all these suggestions people make of what to say to him and start it off are getting me closer to talking to him