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I Have this friend who is always putting themselves down and somethimes i dont know what to say becuase they arent the most attractive person and i dont want to seem fake about it. Whenever they tell me that there ugly or whatnot...im always like dont put yourself down like that your not ugly. Every time i talk to this person they always tell me how ugly they are! PLEASE HELP ME IN WHAT TO SAY TO THEM!!
I've been in this situation before. Sometimes, people really don't have alot of self confidence and it's like they expect their friends to make it up to them with comforting comments and praise. They don't realize that it's up to them to see the true beauty in themselves. I would tell your friend that they should have confidence in themselves. Give them lots of compliments all at once and make them feel good. Don't do this too often because then it will seem fake even if it's not. Throw out some random "feel-gooders" every once in a while to slowly raise your friend's self esteem. It's tough, especially in a world full of size 0 models but friends can make a huge difference. If you ever need any other advice, feel free to ask me questions directly!
(Rating: 5) that was really good info i appreciate it! thans...selene