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Hey guys my name's Erin, and I love helping people. I know how hard life can be at times, and sometimes you just need some adivse. That's what I'm here for. Whatever the question is, I'll be more than happy to answer it!

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if you had the opportunity to have sex with someone you weren't dating but have hooked up with a lot over the past few months would you? i guess im just wondering because everyone says sex is supposed to be a "special" thing you share with someone you love. I think i'm ready but i'm not even dating the guy let alone love him-so if i think he is the right guy to have sex with is he worth the risk? My friend told me, "if you like him don't do it, if you don't like him then go for it"

also on a side note-if you were my friend would you lose respect for me if i made the decision to have sex?

thanks a lot yall :)

ok i'm going to try not to answer this as a friend, but as an advicenator, so bare with me. first of all, i would not lose any respect for you if you made the decision to have sex, and that person that said they would lose all respect for you if you were their friend is a jackass. but your not their friend, your my friend, and i wouldn't even look at you differently. i would just want to make sure that you made the right decision, and that you were 100% comfortable with the decision you made. crap im being a friend. ok advicenator action here...you say you don't love the guy, and you aren't even dating. many people say that sex is supposed to be "special", but that isn't necessarily true. from experience, sex (or the first time at least), isn't this mind blowing experience that people think it is. i mean a lot of people say that you should definitely not do it until your in love, but honestly, i think that if you're emotionally and physically ready for it, and you truely think he's the right person, then there's no harm in it, as long as you KNOW you won't get attached again like last time...which i think is a big possibility, but i'm not you, so i dont know. anywho, just be sure that you are 100% ready. and honestly, i don't think he's a bad choice for your first...you can do better, but he's definitely not bad-considering how much he's changed. and i'll always love you no matter what, just be smart, k kid? haha i said kid...i don't say kid...be smart babe.

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