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Q: kay..i have had a crush on john for a couple of months. then on monday, he asked me out!! i was so happy!! everyone was talking about it!! i know that he smokes weed and pot,( he told me b/4 we were going out) but i still like him..... and when he gets drug tested for his athletics, if he fails it, everyone will think i am desperate. but i really like him.
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First off...pot and weed are the exact same thing.No difference.A lot of the time you know who the "druggies" of the school are.Either they always have the distinctive smell of pot on them, they talk about it constantly, or carry it around and announce they have it *cough cough* Samantha .That's not always the case though.Some people are in the closet about it.Which seems to me that your boyfriend is.If he does fail his drug test I highly doubt people will view you as desperate.You might be associated as other things,but desperate will not be one you have to worry about.Give him your views on his drug habits.Let him know you don't like what he does.It's quite obvious you and him don't agree on it.People act really dumb when they are stoned.At least make sure he has the decency not to do it around you.And if he does...make a clear exit for the door,to show him you dont like him when he is stoned.

that is really good advice!! thank you

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