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Okay so i have this friend and he is a year younger than me and is going to call me in about an hour and hes gunna ask me out and i dont wanna go out with him. any ideas that i could use to say no but to not hurt his feelings?
im 13 and hes 12
Oh gosh. I've had this problem before. In my case I just told him no, no no. He kept asking me, and i think i hurt his feelings. I ended up going out with him because my brother told him yes (over AIM). It was miserable. So don't do what i did, lol. If you really don't want to go out with him just tell him straight up. Don't play games. When he calls you and asks you, act suprised and say "Oh wow. [name] you're a REALLY great guy and all, but we're such good friends i dont even want to think aobut spoiling that." If he understands from there, just leave it at that. But if he persists then say something like "I just dont think of you like that. You're my friend and i love having things that way. I'm flattered that you like me, but i just don't feel the same way. I'm sorry, and i dont want this to change things between us." hopefully you can leave it at that. If not... you're going to have to be firm. "I'm sorry, but my answer is no. I'll talk to you later, bye" i hope this helps! good luck!
~Kayla
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Great advice! Great advice comes from experience!
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