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I'm 14 and a female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concertrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse. When we were dating he told me he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. After we broke up we still talked and he told me that he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and I was upset. We started to say hey and gave hugs whenever we saw each other and I told him to call but he never did. The next day at school I found out that he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks after we were broken up). I try to get over him and move on but it's hard because I still have alot of feelings for him and I still love him. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he did was totally wrong. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me...right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I dont know how he is feeling right now. His friend is supossed to see how he is feeling about me. I don't know what to do though. Can you help? Thanks!

I know it isn't what you want to hear, but you need to get over this guy. There are PLENTY of other guys out there. If he moved on that quickly, then this guy is obviously already over you, or just can't make his mind as to what he wants. How you're feeling is understandable, and perfectly normal, but just try and keep an open mind. There are tons of guys with potential out there, and you wouldn't want to miss one because you were still focusing on this one! I know you feel like this is the only guy for you right now, but it'll pass. Good luck =) Hope you feel better!

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