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Is it bad that my boyfriend is over protective? When ever i flirt he gets mad @ me...but he dosnt tell me other people do and its kinda noticable! But when we talk he dosnt say anything..n i dont want him to hold back anything when hes mad i want him to tell me...what should i do? He is always worried im goin to cheat on him with my ex (his best friend, because we are really good friends) He also says that he can see me and my best friend hooking up! Is this normal...hellpp
A certain amount of fear is a part of any budding relationship. He's afraid to loose you. It sounds like he's going a bit too far though. Controlling behavior, which includes over-protectiveness, needs to be watched closely. He doesn't trust your relationship enough to let you be yourself around other men. Sometimes this can be worked out with time and sometimes... You don't want a man who doesn't care what you do, but it can get out of hand and abusive really fast. Depending on his personality when you try to talk about it, and you should, he may shut down and become unresponsive. Let him know you are afraid of loosing him because he doesn't trust you. It also sounds like he is jelous of his friend for having you first and also if his friend couldn't hold you how can he? You're dealing with fear and ego and it sounds like a touch of childish I won't share my toys kind of thing. Well you aren't a toy and you care enough about him to try to find an answer. He has you now, not his friend. It may not work out between you two if he won't open up and admit even to himself why he's so bothered. (He may not know. It's easier looking back than forward.) Hope this brings you some clarity though I doubt it will actually help the overall situation. Good luck!
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