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Hmm.. What kind of advice can I give? Any kind you'd like. Advice on relationships (all types) Getting out of trouble(my specialty) Sarcasim is always fun.
Giving advice is something I do best, I'll awnser any question you'd like, unless they're stupid and extremely pointless ones.
About me?- I like playing basketball, I'm still in Highschool, doing things that will get me in trouble, but always being good enough to get out of it.
My friends mean the world to me, without them I don't know what'd I do.
I could go on, but I don't think I will.
Anyways, if you do ask me questions, try to hold back on tYpInG lyK diZ N sTuFf alright. Other than that Anything you want to know I'll do my best to help with :)
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Hey I am sixteen and I know that I have an advice colum but I really need help? Ok look ever since I was ten my mom was realy mean to my dad they whould argue and he left then she treated me so badly that my aunt and uncle had to move in with us. They thought she was better but she still whould not do anything with or for me she whouldn't even come to my party or take me to get school stuff my sisters diod it. And ok this same exact thing happend about 8 or 9 times since then and she still won't do anything but the only time my dad tells her that something is wrong with her is when she gets paranoid and thinks he is cheating What do I do do I get out of this stupid sicle let my dad be missrable or do I yell untill he listens wicth will not work but will u please help me please
Your situation seems tough, I don't really understand it much, but it's a little like mine. My mom, whom I love to death, won't bend over backwards or go out of her way to do anything in that sort of way for me. I mean sure, she'll give me money, but she's RUDE to me, she puts me down 24/7 to make herself feel better. She would never attend a basketball game, she wouldn't even go to my baptizim, all becuase she wanted her beer. The thing is though, there's nothing you really can do about it. The only way you'll be able to escape, is if you leave. Your dad is a grown man, he'll be able to handle what he can on his own, he chooses to stay there, he in no way has to. It's all just a matter of if you really want to leave her or not, or if you want to leave that. It's useless telling your mom how you feel, for me anyways, she won't listen. The only people who can make them change is themselves. You just gotta make a decision as to whether or not you're willing to wait on her. I know it's hard, but don't just think about the negatives, and the things your mom does to you, or how she hurts you. If you want to leave, think about the whole perspective. Your life outside away from your mom, your friends, and the life you've created their, and how much you could be without @ the moment. If any of that just made sense, basically, just don't forget to look @ how much worse it could actually be.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much