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Hey guys my name's Erin, and I love helping people. I know how hard life can be at times, and sometimes you just need some adivse. That's what I'm here for. Whatever the question is, I'll be more than happy to answer it!
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Okay heres my story...
I like this guy. Lets call him Jon. He likes me as well... We only knew eachother for like maybe 2 weeks at the most but i sat with him at that table everyday at lunch and in the morning b4 classes start. Anyways.... Last friday we went on a double date with my friend and his friend... Well both of our friends...
Besides the point. We had a great time. At first we went to dinner then played pool for a while then we were supposed to go to a movie but we didnt so we went bowling instead. Well that was alot of fun. Everyday we smile at eachother and talk sometimes but i never know what to talk about around him. What do i talk about? Then when the techers get back from tech (he's one) i always leave homeroom 10 minutes early to see him. I know it's sweet to some people but is it right for me to do that? Im seriously inlove with this guy!! This weekend he's supposed to come over to my house Saturday night so i can see him b4 i go to Punxitauwnii, Clearfield to go hunting for 2 days. So i wont be able to see him Sunday or Monday. Im skippin school.
What should i do with him? Should i make a move or wait for him? I know i need to talk to him more.. Becuase everyday he talks to this girl (i think her name is Jessica) and says like how much he likes me and stuff like that. I mean hes really sweeeetttt!!!! But he also says that i need to talk to him more. I know things about him but not that much. And i reallly want to get to know him more.
Could something happen Saturday night?
What do i talk to him about?
Please give me advice... I'll try anything!! lol
Im seriouslt Happy but Dont know what to do!!!
CEC
all you need to do is just be yourself and talk to him like you would any other friend. talk about favorite movies, books, music, hobbies, stuff like that. chances are once you guys get started talking, you'll really learn a lot about each other quickly. if you feel comfortable making a move, go for it! if not, it's totally fine to wait for him to make a move. but honestly, all you have to do is be yourself, that way things don't get awkward. if you feel they do start to get awkward, that's fine. it's totally normal for it to be awkward in the beginning. but just ask him another question, change the topic, or comment on his shirt or something. i hope this helped, and good luck! let me know how things turn out!!
(Rating: 5) thanx.. that really helps me alot!! Now i know i can come to you for goooood advice. I know a few things about him but i dont eat infront of him. And hes always tryin to get me to. How can i start eatin infront of him??