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lorelei's Picture Hi, I'm Lorelei. I live with my mother, my older sister and my grandmother.
I travel a lot but I'm never a tourist. ;) My mother owns property all over the country and I'm extremely lucky to feel at home in so many different places. It's a lot of fun and I get to see a lot of things and meet a lot of people.
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My friend has this bad problem with flirting with people and not even realizing that she's flirting with them. For example, she told my boyfriend that she thought he was cute, started giggling, and blushed. My boyfriend was rather...irritated...by this, as he can not stand my friend. Whenever I confront her about it, she swears to God she hasn't flirted. How can I get her to see that she really has a problem with this? It just irritates me to see her flirting with my boyfriend. x_x Please help?

Sorry, but you don't say something like that to someone and not realize it's flirting. It sounds like she's just making excuses.

I wouldn't worry about her and your boyfriend. He doesn't like her she probably only flirts with him because she enjoys attention.

People like that seriously crave attention from the opposite sex. There are a lot of women who feel incomplete unless they're being complimented by or being flirted with by a guy.

There's really nothing you can do about it because that is just her personality, but you can ask her to chill out. Express to her how much it bothers you that she's making a move on your boyfriend. If she does it again, it might be time to re-think hanging out with her.

Good luck. :)
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