Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help.
Let your friend know that trick or treating is really fun, but you're just not into the idea so much this year. Tell her that adults might get a little annoyed at the fact that two teenagers are trick-or-treating, because it's usually an event for the kids. Also let her know that you still wanna hang out with her on Halloween. Suggest going to a friend's party, or having your own! You could also always just hang out with her eating candy and watching scarey movies at your house. You guys could even wear coustumes! Another good idea might be to hand out candy to trick or treaters. If she wants to you could put on an elebroate display with you two in witch costumes and a fake cauldron with dry ice or something like that. Let her help plan a different activity that both you and her could have fun with!
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I like your ideas. I think I'll give a couple of them a shot...Thanks! =)
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