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lorelei's Picture Hi, I'm Lorelei. I live with my mother, my older sister and my grandmother.
I travel a lot but I'm never a tourist. ;) My mother owns property all over the country and I'm extremely lucky to feel at home in so many different places. It's a lot of fun and I get to see a lot of things and meet a lot of people.
Shopping always seems to be better away from home too.
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I'm very young but the year 2003 caused me to learn more about who I am than some people get to learn about themselves in an entire lifetime. Ever since I've made it a point to share what I've learned with everyone possible. Ask and I'll do my best to answer.

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My sister was like to me "what are you drinking" and im like "apple juice" and she starts yelling me calling me a heffer and crap! like im not even on my diet anymore...and im not even fat but she says if i eat stuff and drink all this sugary stuff im gonna be huge later on and im like..uhh its just juice. i was thirsty so i drake some. and she was like thers crystal light..and i didnt feel like crystal light so i drank apple juice..we always fight about this and i know she cares about me and she doesnt wanna see me get huge...but she always makes me cry and she makes me feel fatter times 200. idk what to do..i hate myself now i just wanna lose weight so im anarexic like her and then shes happy and she can get off my back. ugh! what do i say to her to get her off my back!!!

Have you told her how un-helpful she's being? People who suffer from anorexia tend to be incredibly hard on themselves and sometimes on others concerning food.
If she really is an anorexic, you need to get her help. Talk to your parents or someone else you can trust. Even if she gets upset with you for doing it, she'll thank you in the long-run.

As far as yourself, you really shouldn't compare yourself to other people. Ever. Don't let anyone else influence your image of yourself because you will never be happy. You're your own person and you should work to fit your own personal standards. You say you're not dieting? You're satisfied with your weight? Stick to that! Don't let someone who's insecure about her own weight get you down.


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(5) No she is not anarexic. just that she wants me to be really skinny like her...it just wont work cuz im taller than her + my metabolisim isint as fast..thanks

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